About Courtship - Services

Seeking Courtship is a parental guide of over 300 questions to ask suitors or the woman your son is interested in marrying. Most parents hardly know the men who wish to marry their daughters, or the woman their son met at college and wants to wed. After asking these questions, I guarantee you will have a much better understanding whether he or she is Mr.Right or Mrs. Wrong.

Rebekah and I sought to cover all the areas parents and sons and daughters would wish to know.

Spiritual

Doctrine

Church

Family

Relationships

Gifts and talents

Goals

Marriage

Finances

Sexual relationships

Rearing children

Health

Education

Work and career

Miscellaneous

Character

Compatibility

Common interests and activities

Following these questions are the rationales for asking them.

There are two questionaires on this CD. They can be downloaded as many times as necessary. One is for suitors and one is for a woman whom a son would be interested in courting. They are not exactly the same.

Rebekah and I chose to invite the young men to a restaurant for a meal and then to retire to a private room. It took us 5-6 hours to cover the questions when we asked them all. You might take less time if you know the person being interviewed and there is no need to ask all 300 questions. Tim, Rich, and Nate report that they learned a lot about us through the experience.

We are convinced that parents who use our questionnaires will say, "I never would have thought to ask that. But, we are glad we did."